How to Be a Lesbian


Learning how to navigate relationships and sexuality is hard enough when your desires are part of the mainstream, heteronormative culture. But, as lesbians, finding role models and examples for how to navigate the dating world, coming out, and understanding your sexuality is still difficult if you don’t know where to look. Being a lesbian does not make you different from other human beings. However, there are some unique challenges and lesbians face when navigating relationships and sexuality.

Understand what it means to be a lesbian. Lesbians are women who have natural and normal attraction to other women. They feel deep emotional bonds with women and prefer the romantic company of another lady. Being a lesbian is not a choice that you’ve made, but a part of your personality. Just like some people are born tall and others short, some people are naturally heterosexual and some homosexual and many in between. You are the way you are for a reason.

  • Recognizing and accepting your feelings is all that matters when accepting yourself as a lesbian. If you feel attracted to women, then there you are. There is no need to judge that attraction in any way. You should simply accept it.

Let people know your sexual orientation when you are ready

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